Actions Speak Louder Than Words?

Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
What questions can I ask my man to see if he’s really interested in me or more interested in what I have to offer?

Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
There are no such questions, not really. You just carefully watch what he does and listen to what he says, and make sure his words and actions are in sync. Asking direct questions expecting to get the honest truth is not necessarily the best approach.

Why?

Because a man trying to game on you for what you have to offer will just tell you what he knows you want to hear! What people can’t do well is hide how they truly feel about you over time. How a man treats you and how consistently respectful he acts towards you is the most honest reflection of what is going on with him emotionally and mentally.

Always pay more attention to a man’s actions than you ever do his words.

MsHeartBeat

Relationship and dating advice columnist of Ask HeartBeat! Has enjoyed dishing out insightful yet hilariously funny advice, tersely worded reality checks and "let me slap you upside the head" wake up calls to men and women around the globe since 1991.